What No Longer Defines Me:
My eating disorder
This mythical idea of the ‘perfect’ job
This locked in view of who God is
The image of the ‘sheltered one’
Being a ‘drummer’
My school status
Choosing to be “the quiet one”
The victim role
What Still Defines Me But I am Working to Let Go Off
The option of self-destruction
The hold they have over me
The attachment to the past
What Does Define Me
My relationship with Ben
The idea that my spirituality and faith can be fluid and changing. I don’t have it all figured out and I don’t have to fit into a mold and that’s okay.
My friendships. The true meaningful ones.
Giving back. Loving more.
Finding my passions and pursuing them
Dreaming and following those dreams
Allowing myself to Live. Truly live.